Eudaimonism – The Highest Good

Mongol General: What is best in life? Conan: To crush your enemies, to see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentations of their women. We’re all asking the same thing. When you get down to it. The reasons why we do the things we do. We’re all tough muddin’ our way to answering […]

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The Cab Ride

We were in New York City (“New York City?!”). My city. My cousin had gotten married. At the Bronx Zoo! Incredible event, complete with peacocks strutting around (the birds not the wannabe alphas). It was a wonderful reunion of sorts for us and congratulations were given all around. But it’s the cab ride back to […]

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Grains of Salt, Alex Chung

Grain of Salt, or How to Take Your Criticism

Criticism is a grain of salt. So take it with it. Much like our delicious sodium friend, it can enhance our experience or it can ruin it. If you stand up, stand out, and stand for something, criticism is a wonderful gauge to measure¬†how you are doing. It can actually be (if not feel like) […]

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Author(ity)

Writing was never hard for me until I tried to make it something I had to do, rather than something I wanted to do. This is a critical insight into my life. During my school days, I’d push off assigned reading and read tons of other books. But if one of those books ended up […]

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Overdrive

I’m furrowed. Because I want to feign seriousness. Solemnity. It’s the face of a comedian trying not to rush through to the zinger. I wear it well. I’m with my family. Wife and son. We’re driving, on one of our road trips that define our marriage and my son’s childhood, save a brief six month […]

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Personal Magnetism

I believe in personal magnetism. In that “know it when you see it” quality of a person to magnetically charge another individual, group, or even an entire world. To light them up with electricity. To give them goosebumps. To make them shine. I believe in that. Because I’ve seen it. We all have. Even if […]

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Life By A Thousand Cuts

Why is it, when you swing with all your might, with everything you’ve got, with 100% strength, you end up hitting a little dribbler or missing the ball entirely? It’s because, in my experience, when you’re swinging from your heels, you’re not using good technique. You’re trading skill for sizzle, humility for the highlight reel. […]

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